True Love | Don't Hurt

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What I know is that love is a beautiful thing, it makes people happy and love doesn't hurt, but what is this one that these ladies are planning to do? This is the word that has kept on ringing in my mind since Tuesday.

What happened is that on Tuesday, I decided to pay a visit to my wife workplace. On getting there she was busy attending to customers. However, I decided to sit in one corner of the shop to wait for her to finish.

While waiting for her, I overheard the two ladies who also work in her workplace discussing on how they are going to cheat on their marriage. Whenever they had any misunderstanding with their partner, one of the lady said she would always took her time to cheat till they sort out the issue with her partner, just to overcome the tantrums she might be going through during those difficult times in her marriage.

So on hearing this, my mind keeps on recalling those disgusting words. All I need at the moment was to listen to a music that fits the atmospheric conditions. However, all i know is that If there was a true love, they would be doing everything possible to save the relationship not thinking of how to cheat.

I took out my phone, and listened to True Love by p!nk ft Lily Allen.


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In this song, p!nk share a lot of beautiful message on relationships, marriage and love.

In this song, she begins by narrating how her relationships was full of up and down, and she instructs listener that despite all these difficult times, challenges, and frustration they might have in their relationship, true love should always lead. Using her own marriage or relationship experience as an example.

They speaks of the fact that although love or relationship isn't easy. Therefore, she encourages listeners to keep embracing true love. She emphasizes on how to maintain healthy relationships through communication, forgiveness and acceptance.

They make us understand that true love is possible, and also encourages their listener that despite it's disorderliness and challenges that do comes in a relationship, they should keep on believing in true love.

It's a song of trust, true love and respect. So therefore, cheating, Fighting, bullying or unhappiness is not a definition of true love. True Love doesn't hurt, true love cares and true love protects, so let's keep on embracing true love in all aspects of our life, on our daily basis.

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Well said dear true love should not hurt if you find true love you will have peace of mind.

#dreemerforlife

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You're right Peace of mind can be earned through love

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It must have been difficult to stand there and say nothing. Personally, I should have left.

The truth, I think, is that it's often much easier to cheat on your partner than to have these sometimes difficult discussions about how you really feel. But it's a necessary effort.

Personally, I find it very hard to express my feelings to my girlfriend. So to help me, I sometimes send her reading material or books on relationships. That way, I know she's on the same wavelength as me and, in time, it will be easier for both of us to really share our feelings. Right now, it's really a taboo subject for me.

#dreemerforllife

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Thanks so much for your support

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True love truly does not hurt. You can't love someone and cheat on them. When you love someone, no matter the misunderstanding, you'd always be willing to settle.

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Yes that what I thought. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this

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Sorting out a misunderstanding is the best thing to do in a relationship especially marriage.
Not replacing the unpleasant with the unpleasant.

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I believe the issue in most relationships is that people these days will flee at the slightest form of difficulty. Infidelity in relationships has become the norm among folks and its starting to become a societal menace.
And I believe it takes more than true love to stay faithful to one's partner these days. Self-discipline is also required.

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You are right bro. Self discipline really matters alot.

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The thing is so long people keep going into relationships and getting married for the wrong reasons love will continue to die a natural death and go extinct. We owe it to ourselves to be sincere in our dealings and not try to be mischievous. I wish those ladies could listen to this video maybe they'll have a rethink. Still thank you for sharing.

#dreemerforlife

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I can't believe I haven't listened to this song before, it's so nice!

I don't know what the world is turning into, cheating on your spouse just because you have a little misunderstanding is just childish.
You needed a song to help get your mind off of that talk and this was a great choice
#dreemersforlife

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I'm so surprised that you never heard the song before. Hope you enjoy it 😁

Thanks so much for stopping by

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Wow! That is quite the response by those ladies to having a spat with their husbands. I'm guessing their relationships are not well grounded and certainly not ones centered around God. It's a poor excuse to allow themselves the liberty of being unfaithful. A nice examination of true love @ashiru

I dropped in from Dreemport this evening.

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You're right @samsmith1971 is likely the foundation isn't solid enough, maybe isn't centered around God

Thanks for your contribution

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Love is truly beautiful but with the right person because everything will work swiftly with too many misunderstandings

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You're right. Thanks so much for your support

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