A Safe Space for the Imperfect: What I Learned About Soul Care

This is my reading response about the topic of Counseling and the Sinfulness of Humanity. Mr. Raymond and Ms. Jen tackle this topic for us to discuss in the counselling class. This discussion made me realize that every person carries struggles, weaknesses, and imperfections. As a person, we are not perfect. We make mistakes, hurt others, disappoint ourselves, and sometimes we can choose wrong actions or decisions even when we know what is right. Why is that? Because this is part of the reality of life. In this context, counseling becomes very important because it helps people face their problems, heal even their emotional struggles, and find their direction again.

As a student, I can also relate to this topic. There have been times when I feel overwhelmed, insecure, or feel guilty about the things I have done or failed to do. But sometimes I can compare myself to others, become jealous, lose motivation, or make a decision later that I regret. This reminds me that sinfulness is not only about big wrongdoings, but it is also about our everyday attitudes, such as pride, anger, selfishness, and dishonesty. What touched me the most was the idea that counseling is not about judging people for their mistakes, but also about helping them to understand themselves and guiding them toward change. Many students silently carry their stress, family problems, pressure in school, or emotional pain, especially me right now. I can feel that way, but I can be silent to finish and to accept that issue. Sometimes, people only need someone who will listen without condemning them. And I think counseling gives that safe space for me.

This reading response also reminds me that no one should experience shame in asking for help. We often pretend to be okay because we do not want others to think that we are weak. But in reality, we need to seek guidance to show courage and maturity. And everyone needs support at some point in their life. As a future professional teacher someday and as a person, I learned a lot that I should be more understanding of others because everyone is fighting their silent battles, even if I may not see them. Instead of quickly judging their mistakes, I should show empathy and patience. At the same time, I must also be honest with my own flaws and continue to improve myself.

Analyn Capuli
3rd year BSCED-VE
Intro. To Guidance Counseling
Reading Response 1