My Entry || Both My Parents Are Old, I'm So Afraid They'll Leave Me || Hive Learners Contest

Hello Hive Learners friends, how are you guys today, hopefully on this happy day we are always in good health and can participate in activities smoothly.

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Meet me again on this occasion in the 15th week of the first edition, in this edition we have determined a very extraordinary theme by the community entitled the greatest fear, so I think this is a very interesting theme for us to discuss together at in this community. First of all, I would like to thank all of my friends who have entertained me with various articles in the 14th week. And I also hope that in this 15th week we can still participate in the contest smoothly.

In an individual, of course, there is a fear that he has, both from children and adults, of course, they have been afraid of something. As we know that fear is one of the disorders that exist in a person's psychology when he is feeling it, this is natural for a person and this can also happen anytime and anywhere. The fear that humans have of course is different, I think every individual must have a fear but sometimes they don't realize it even it is one of the biggest fears in their life. Some even say that fear is one of the basic emotions that exist in humans apart from happiness, sadness and anger.

What we need to know is that fear always has something to do with events that we experience in the future, maybe we don't know what future events will happen to us as we imagine it is an event that worsens the condition of something or continues to occur an event or an event which we cannot accept. Inside I must have had the greatest fear even if we imagine from now on it is too sad for us to feel. Apart from having a big fear, of course we also have a small fear, in some small fears of course we can avoid it or find other ways not to meet that fear. But for the great fear that I have, I don't think I can avoid it or I look for other ways so I don't find it. It really can't be because the biggest fear that I have in me is the fear that will surely come, but we don't know when it will come or when it will happen.

All right friends, before I tell you the biggest fear that is inside of me first I also want to tell my friends about the small fear that is inside of me.

• Failure
  Everyone is afraid of failure, but for me failure is a small fear, but some people also consider failure to be the biggest fear. Why do I consider failure as a small fear because I prefer to try something that makes me curious, so when I try I am ready to accept failure. But if the things we want to try first we study them more deeply of course the failure is very small for us to have. So for me, if we want to do something, then we first think deeply so that the failure that befalls us will be smaller.

• Darkness
  Sometimes many people have a fear of being in the dark, in the dark many people are afraid of mystical things such as ghosts or horror, even some people in the dark are so afraid that they don't even dare to feel it. Of course, people who are afraid of their darkness must always be with friends who accompany them so that they are not afraid. But if I'm in the dark, that's my little fear, because if it's a place I often go to or a place I've been to, of course I'm not afraid even if it's dark there. There's a little bit of fear in the dark when I come to a place I've never been to before that has darkness.

• Fear of being left by a boyfriend
  This is for me mediocre, because he is still our boyfriend and not yet a wife.

• Fear of heights
  There are so many as we have seen people who are afraid of heights. This is usually a lot of women, as I have seen, sometimes women have a little height, they already scream not daring even though there is a safety under it. But if I am not too afraid of heights because if we are at a height we are better off choosing not to look down so that we don't feel that we are on a height.

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Maybe it's some small fear that I have. But that little fear I will try to make the fear disappear from me but until now I don't know how. For the greatest fear that is in me is that I am very afraid of losing the people I love or the people I care about. I mean the people I love and the people I care about are my parents and my family. I am very afraid that if my parents die, it is as we all know that every human being will die. Because parents are the people we love the most or the people who have contributed the most to us, of course we are very sad and very afraid if they lose from our lives. Moreover, like me, I am a child who is far from my parents, sometimes we can only see each other for a very long time. This is because my position is as an immigrant, so I only return to my village at certain times.

I miss my parents very much and really want to make them happy before they leave me. From now on I can already imagine that if they left me it was the deepest fear I felt. I immediately thought like this if they were gone then when I returned to my hometown there would be a silence that was inside me. Because like normal days when I return to my hometown, of course they welcome me well and love me with all their heart. Maybe if they had died then I would have felt great sadness when I returned to my hometown.

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So I'm here to invite all my friends to always love our parents because they are the people who gave birth to us and the people who have given us full love, so we as children give our parents good things according to what what our parents want. So here I am still trying to make my parents happy because they are everything to me and I am very afraid if they are no longer in my life.

Maybe this is all I can say on this happy occasion, hopefully this will be useful for me and also for others. A big thank you to the seniors in the community and also to all community members who have joined the Hive Learners community. In writing these words I use my own language then I translate into English using Google translate, so if there are words that are wrong, please forgive me because I didn't do it on purpose. Thanks.

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