The Sooner You Realize

One line I first got from the avengers movie and it was said by, Thor, he said the only thing that is permanent in life is impermanence. Change is the only constant in life.

Life‍‌‍‍‌ does not wait for us to be aware of it, it just keeps going regardless.

Changes happen everywhere and every time but sometimes they are so powerful that you cannot help but fall while trying to keep up.

People seek comfort with familiar things because comfort is one of the main reasons for people to cling to familiar things and at the same time it gives them an illusion of control over the situation. We look back in our life and wish that the old days would come again, those good old days, but they never do. People, places and even our perception of life change shape and direction.

That's sometimes what people call maturity

It really is a hard pill to swallow, to accept that things have changed for the worse and it hurts.

Please, if you ever find yourself holding on to the past very tightly, then recognize the fact that you are not allowing yourself to live the present moment nor are you allowing yourself to prepare for tomorrow. When you are constantly comparing what you have with what you had, and you find that the past had some good stuff that don't exist today, it is just consuming you.

Missing someone or something is not an issue, it is a part of life.

Regardless of whether you miss them or not, life goes on. The longer you refuse to accept it, the more disappointment will be your company and it leads to despair and heartbreak.

You need to let go of it and letting go is not removing the memories from your mind but acknowledging that every phase of life is significant for what it is and not for what you want it to be. Season are different and there's both good and bad sides to every season.

You making the attempt to move on does not necessarily imply that you pretend that there was no past or you never got hurt.

If you're able to do this, it shows that you still have control over what will happen next. Things change, people change,l and letting go will not change that. When you finally come to terms with the fact that the person or the things that you miss are no longer there, you are making a little room for something new. Life will not be the same as before and it is not a loss but rather space to ‍‌‍‍‌for something new. It's all about perspective here.

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