Una Mamá Aprendiz. Spanish/english
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Saludos Madres HIVERS y padres también, Quiero contarles un poco sobre mi experiencia como Mamá Primeriza
Hola Querida Comunidad de HIVE, y Saludo especial para las madres de esta comunidad, estoy en mi 3er mes del Postparto, y quería comentarles un poco sobre mi experiencia siendo una mamá Primeriza y de Twins, o Mellizos ( 2 bebés ). En mi Blog inicial les comenté que el salir en embarazo fue una Obra maravillosa de Dios y el Universo... yo me encontraba muy enferma, tenia muchos mareos, dolor de "riñón" estaba reteniendo liquidos y no estaba comiendo casi nada; literal no era yo! Mi esposo estaba preocupado pero no era mucho lo que el podía hacer, un día el llegó con un detalle que me trajo a la cama porque la verdad no me quería levantar, sentía que no tenía fuerzas ( ya estaba embarazada y no lo sabía ).
Pasaban los días y yo seguía con los malestares pero más intensos, un día amanecí con mucho dolor y malestar Pero como yo sufro de un riñón pues estaba enfocada que eso era. Mi esposo me dijo que debíamos acudir al médico y allí no solo me entere que mi riñón estaba lleno de cristales, también me entere que estaba EMBARAZADA ( SORPRESA) y que el Embarazo era GEMELAR, casi me desmayo. Después de todo el llanto de felicidad, indicaciones y todo lo que esto amerita me dispuse a escribir una tarjetita para cada uno de mis seres especiales con el cuál le contaría la gran noticia, mi esposo fue a buscarme las Cajitas que necesitaba y unos frutos secos que les quería colocar, al día siguiente de la gran noticia ya estaba armando cajitas para dar la noticia 🫶🏻. Era algo MÁGICO, parecía que todo estaba escrito tal cual.
Por otro lado mis síntomas cada día empeoraban más y más entre mareos, desgano, muchas nauseas y nada de apetito; aún así me tocaba levantarme y salir a trabajar, era una de las cosas que me tenían motivada, y así llegamos a los 4 meses 😍.
Días después fue mi cumpleaños y literal lo pase en pijamas no quería NADA. El malestar que sentía me tenía sin fuerzas, aún así cante cumpleaños y apague mi velita pidiendo un deseo extraordinario que nunca imaginé poder tener la dicha de hacerlo que era Poder llevar a mis hijos a feliz termino.
En ese entonces ya no quería hacer revelación de Sexo siempre me sentía mal, mi esposo me preparó una revelación de sexo sorpresa muy íntima solo con personas sumamente especiales, justo ese día mi mejor amiga estaba cumpliendo años más de fallecida eso me tenía un poco más triste de lo normal, mi esposo me invitó a comer junto con mi familia y cuando llegamos al sitio donde era la cena pues me encontré con la sorpresa Y la verdad fue algo demasiado lindo. Me encantó mucho y lloré demasiado de agradecimiento, agradezco no haber abierto el sobre antes jeje ese día nos enteramos que venían en camino dos hermosos príncipes🩵🩵.
Los días pasaban y la gente me decía que los malestares se me iban a pasar, pero no yo sentía que cada día se intensificaban más... Sentía que no iba a salir de ese cuadro.
Pero tocaba arreglarme, colocar mi mejor cara y salir a hacer cosita que tenía pendiente. el sol brilla para todos todos los días.
Con este inicio de una larga historia me despido, nos leemos prontito para seguirles contando. Les mando un abrazo.
Déjenme saber si les gustaría saber más😉.
ENGLISH
Greetings HIVERS Mothers and Fathers too, I want to tell you a little about my experience as a New Mom
Hello Dear HIVE Community, and special greeting to the mothers of this community, I am in my 3rd month of Postpartum, and I wanted to tell you a little about my experience being a first-time mom of Twins, or Multiples (2 babies). In my initial Blog I told you that getting pregnant was a wonderful Work of God and the Universe... I was feeling very sick, I had a lot of dizziness, kidney pain, I was retaining fluids and I was hardly eating anything; literally, I wasn't me! My husband was worried but there wasn't much he could do, one day he came with a detail that he brought to my bed because the truth is I didn't want to get up, I felt like I had no strength (I was already pregnant and I didn't know it).
Days passed and I continued to have discomfort but more intense, one day I woke up with a lot of pain and discomfort. But since I suffer from a kidney problem, I was focused on what it was. My husband told me that we should go to the doctor and there I not only found out that my kidney was full of crystals, I also found out that I was PREGNANT (SURPRISE) and that the pregnancy was TWINS, I almost fainted. After all the crying of happiness, instructions and everything that this warrants, I decided to write a card for each of my special someones with which I would tell them the great news, my husband went to get the boxes I needed and some nuts that I wanted to put in them, the day after the great news I was already putting together boxes to give the news 🫶🏻. It was something MAGICAL, it seemed like everything was written just like that.
On the other hand, my symptoms were getting worse every day, with dizziness, listlessness, severe nausea, and no appetite. Even so, I had to get up and go to work; it was one of the things that kept me motivated, and so we made it to the 4-month mark 😍.
A few days later, it was my birthday, and I literally spent it in my pajamas, wanting nothing. The discomfort I felt left me feeling weak, yet I sang happy birthday and blew out my candle, making an extraordinary wish I never imagined I'd ever be blessed with: being able to carry my children to term.
At that time I no longer wanted to do a sex reveal, I always felt bad, my husband prepared a very intimate surprise sex reveal for me only with very special people, just that day my best friend was celebrating her birthday after her death that made me a little sadder than usual, my husband invited me to eat with my family and when we arrived at the place where the dinner was, I found the surprise and the truth is it was something too nice. I loved it a lot and I cried a lot of gratitude, I am grateful for not having opened the envelope before hehe that day we found out that two beautiful princes were on the way🩵🩵.
The days passed and people told me that my ailments would go away, but I felt like they were getting worse every day... I felt like I wasn't going to get over that condition.
But it was time to get ready, put on my best face, and go out and do something I had pending. The sun shines for everyone every day.
With this beginning of a long story, I say goodbye. I'll see you soon so we can continue the story. Sending you a hug.
Let me know if you'd like to know more😉.
Hello there,
This must be frustrating. I know that being a mom is feeling that no one can describe but having kids is taking a tool on that person in almost every aspect. Physically, (for me more importantly) mentally, and all the things I cannot name. I think you did a wonderful job. I hope to see you keep thriving!
Have a nice one,
@bemier
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I'm a twin mum of 2boys, in few months they will be 3 years old. I understand how it feels especially when they are infants. Please accept all the help you need from family and friends.. it gets better when they are older.
Hello @lecia89 Well, you can understand me perfectly, and thank you, from your hand so I know that growing does improve everything. At first I was very closed off with the help but it was definitely going to be very difficult for me alone. I send you a hug
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I couldnt imagine the frustration that you had.It was even difficult for me to take care of one baby when I was newly giving birth the adjustment of night and day to take care of the baby as mother even without enough sleep.
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Esos hermosos mellizos serán tu universidad como mama, todo se aprende en el camino estoy segura que lo aras increíble hermosa mami ☺️bendiciones
El tiempo de Dios es perfecto 🙏 gracias a Dios todo salio bien y ahora tienes dos bebés hermosos 😍 no fue fácil pero valió la pena 🙏 son un milagrito multiplicado por 2 ♥️ muchas bendiciones amiga 🙏 me encantó leer esta parte de tu historia 🤗
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Waiting for part 2... Hihi. How's your delivery and having kids now? 😍 Having twins is what I want before... But now that I am already gifted with 2 boys, I think I can't handle twins. 😅