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When a friend got married, the next day there was a discussion about married life.
I wanted friends who are married to discuss this topic.
But they insisted that your observation and study is more.
you talk Trying to close the conversation.

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encouragement

Encouraging each other is very important in this relationship.
Raining sarcastic sentences all day long, finding bugs in every habit and work, trying to put down your partner in order to prove yourself more capable, intelligent and sensible.
All these things affect the married life badly. And this relationship becomes torture.
Both men and women love to be appreciated. These are the food of both.
Women especially want appreciation for themselves and their work.

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This definition plays the role of energy for him.
If a woman is praised or encouraged for any work, she can do it all day long.
In almost every house, women spend more time in the kitchen, but where they are praised for cooking, women turn to the kitchen with passion and where they are criticized, women are forced to look in the kitchen.

Moderation and Temperance

This is a very important aspect.
My uncle says "A man should never go to the feet or the neck.
He needs to stay in the middle. Men who abuse each other.
Those who go as far as hitting or strangling them.
There are no men. Those who hold a woman's feet are also not men.
Deal with women with kindness. Sometimes there will be an opportunity in life that if the man in the middle grabs the woman's feet, the woman will move.
Goes. Or even if he goes to extremes of anger, even then the woman gets upset.
That this is not the case today? She realizes that she has definitely committed a big mistake.
Never give too much freedom, do not impose unnecessary strictures and restrictions.
It is better if balance is maintained. Don't take away from him the freedom he is entitled to. Give him confidence.

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support Don't try to keep it tied, but try to establish such a relationship that the woman herself likes to stay with you.
A man who becomes emotional and melts at once loses his place.
Men who get angry and abuse several times a day lose their position in the eyes of women. They themselves disgust the woman.

Stay clean

**Just as a husband wants his wife to dress up, put on perfume, wear light makeup, use jewelry, etc.
Take a bath and wear nice clothes, behave with a smile.
In the same way, a woman also wants her husband to bathe and wear good clothes, put on perfume, improve his physical structure, and smile.
But it happens that men come back from work and lie down tired.
Do not change. Just as a dull wife does not attract her husband, similarly a husband wrapped in a dirty vest cannot attract his wife's attention.

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In such situations, the war of compulsion and necessity only goes on.
The relationship between emotions and feelings and love is left in the middle.
A friend got married a few months ago.
This time when I met her, she had a good body Shadi.
Many women also wrong themselves by not paying attention to this matter.
I encouraged my friend and said, "I remember you. It was you who gave me this advice.
Even after marriage, keep going to the gym and walking. The relationship will be stronger and happier."

raw ears

The more mature a man's ears are, the better he will prove to be a husband, son and brother. A man with raw ears remains entangled in the mutual affairs of women throughout his life and gradually becomes useless and useless to his mother, siblings and wife.
If the wife talks about the family in the room, keep it confined to that room. If you go out and tell your parents about this, problems will arise. If your wife does not express her grief to you, she will burst in front of someone else. Then problems will arise. Listen to him calmly and comfort him by holding your hand and say, "It's okay, my friend. I can understand. But they are big, so for the sake of Allah, listen to them from one ear and take them out of the other. If you can't bear it, I will Hear it."

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If mother says anything about your wife, listen. If you go and tell your wife, there will be a great war among the women of the house. Domestic politics will begin. Limit yourself by listening to your mother. Never insult mother in front of wife and wife in front of mother. Men who give each relationship its place are the best. Act with moderation and moderation.

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Contradiction of woman to woman

A woman always has a problem with a woman.
Even if they are mother, daughter or two sisters. If your mother does not like any habit or work of your wife, then never go and say, "Mom was saying this, she was saying. This habit of yours is not right, etc."
If you do this, the work will be worse and reversed.
After listening, wait for a few days and then see a good mood and say to your wife from your side, "Dude, if such and such is not done, then do such and such?" .
She will readily agree.
If he said that Amma said.
So forget that your wife should accept.

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McKay's evil

A woman never tolerates the evil of her brothers and parents, no matter how wrong they are.
It is a woman's nature.
Often husbands want an opportunity to say "You are like this, your family is like this, your parents' training is wrong. Your home or family environment is not right". Etc. Etc.
However, this is very wrong.
And every other woman gets to hear the same thing.

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If you have a mutual problem, let it be mutual. What is the need to reach out to parents? As a man, you don't even leave your wife's late parents, so are you a man? Is it manly of you to keep abusing his parents in the grave?
In this way, you live and die for a woman, because those who leave the heart are dead.
You limit your wife's mistake to that, she will tolerate, understand and try to change herself.

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Friendly relationship

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Don't be rigid and rigid.
Don't create a relationship of fear and dread.
Establish a friendly ceremony. Husband and wife can become best friends if you learn to forgive each other's mistakes.
Give each other acceptance, love, affection, attention and respect.
Understanding is more important than love. Try to be like-minded, consider each other's likes and dislikes.
Change yourself and change someone else.
All changes are not possible unilaterally.
Positive changes happen only if sacrifice and compromise are two-sided.

Space

** You are in the same house.
But the woman has left everything and come to a new place and new people.
Where there are different types of people.
It takes time to understand everyone's nature, give it space to adjust itself.**

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If your family is not giving space then you can try on your own because support from husband teaches a woman the skill to tolerate in-laws. Just keep comforting her, keep encouraging her and she will gradually learn to adjust.

Mental and physical peace

That is the purpose of marriage.
Giving each other mental and physical comfort should be the first priority.
Good choice of words, soft and polite tone, praise, encouragement, expression of love, attention, respect play the role of tools for peace of mind.
Do an outing every fortnight or once a month, take the wife out.
Expensive and cheap hotels do not matter.
Whether you take it to a dhaba or take it for a spin on a bike and bring a cup of ice cream or a plate of round guppy.

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So much for him if you have made this arrangement with your own pleasure, otherwise even an expensive hotel will not please him in anger and compulsion.
Use of compliments, jokes, light teasing.
All these will give him peace of mind and only after that the physical needs are happily fulfilled. Then this relationship, feelings and emotions will be two-way.
It is important to keep in mind that it is incumbent upon you to complete the woman.
Do not leave the wife incomplete or incomplete.
Follow him until he is done. There is no problem if there is any problem.
The remedy is Sunnah.
Don't make it an ego problem and focus on your diet. Exercise, keep yourself stress free.
Consult a good doctor.
Spend more time in romance and be sure to understand the function and psychology of a woman.

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