Confessions of a Peaceful ‘Hot-Head’ 😂
Would it be funny if I say that this prompt questions got me confused initially. Infact it got me laughing cos I had to sit back and ask myself if I get anngry easily or not. I know a lot of persons are gonna be writing up some sweet things about themselves. After all no body wants to be the bad guy. Hahahah
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Well, the question of how easily I get angry. I’d say I get angry easily and not easily. It all depends on the scenario. Sometimes it may take some time for me to get angry with someone or people or at a situation and some other times, I could get angry instantly. Some other times. I’d just overlook the situation even though it has met every criteria to get me angry.
I think that whether I get angry easily or not is not even the question here. It’s a matter of what I do with the anger. Well, most times, I do nothing. Hahahah. I just get angry. I may vent to myself obviously but sometimes I rarely have the strength to confront the person or what made me angry.
Maybe because people do not easily acknowledge their wrong and even when people offend you, they tend to excuse it away. Everyone is looking for who to blame. Why blame someone who is looking for who to blame for their misbehaviors. If I told you that when people get me angry that sometimes I cry instead of confronting them, would that be weird. Hahahah. Because I don’t even have strength to fight.
Sometimes if I was really pissed off and the situation is such that needs to be addressed so that it doesn’t repeat itself again, I usually have the repetition syndrome ongoing with me. I can spend days brooding and analyzing the situation in my head and looking for a way to put it to the other person without having to fight.
I can analyze that over and over until it doesn’t hurt so much. And sometimes after all that analysis, I may still not get to say it or talk about it. I can cry it out or better still pray it out and sometimes I still say it. It all depends on the person involved and the situation involved.
I think my getting angry goes away as easily as it comes. Maybe one of the reasons why I do not like expressing anger is that I used to be a stammerer. Do you know how difficult it is to express oneself once angry as a stammerer? Well, the energy is sapping so it better not to even start.
Though I don’t stammer again normally except when I am angry. So why stress myself. I’d rather keep quiet and cool off. Then probably talk when I can talk reasonably without shaking the foundations of my life🤣.
Anger is a lot of energy and I feel it’s useless giving it to people. When I am pushed more than I can bear, I can just walk away and then decide what to do in my heart. I don’t have strength for dramatic anger displays. It’s always not worth it because we will always regret statements we made from anger or the actions we took while angry.
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