Cultural Stress Impact on Life after Childhood
Stress, Anxiety and depression in this era is common thing and I've dealt with this my entire life.
How do i get all the stress and how do i cop with it going to tell everything in this post.
life in a endless lope
Every night after work i lay on my bed, i listen to music, i overthink, i create fake scenarios, the regret fills my mind, the stress from the society and my body gives up just to wake up and repeat this cycle the next day.
There is no end to this and it gives me stress but i want to break this never ending life cycle and maybe we all want a way out of never ending stress lope.
Probably wondering from where this cultural stress comes from though it is given by society we lives in.
I'm not living in European country, not in Us but somewhere in Asia where people don't mind there business.
And it's in culture to give stress to whether it comes from any guest or by a random stranger always in an unexpected way.
unexpected compliments in our culture
It's worse feeling when someone gives a compliment you ain't expected at all from and the whole day ruined in stress.
Compliment will be like; do you ever thought how ugly you look?
Types of compliment that will make feel anyone feel insecure about his/her looks,body or whatever it gives a lot of stress.
How do i cope stress when someone gives such a compliment?
Taking other people compliment as a joke and seeing the expression on their faces will give you strength and won't make me feel stress.
unwanted interactions with strangerIt's to normal in our culture like you are just sitting in a public place waiting for friend and then a random dude will show up from nowhere (no problem)
Until one minute is passed and now started asking unwanted question like what's your name, tell me whats your father do - what are you doing here, Makes no sense of doing inquiry but it's culture here to give stress and the only way to cope with it is move on find a new place.
weak in studies ain't accepted in cultureThe stress, anxiety and depression always has to do something with our culture or society
And in a culture where one must have to get Good marks otherwise from neighbors to relatives will make the life of your parents miserable.
Telling them grades of their child's just to make them feel your son/daughter is weak and ain't capable - Giving stress not only to you but your family as well.
Stress Impact on life after childhood
My entire life was stuck in this endless stress lope and it has many impact on my life.
this is the point of life where my hair is turning white at age of 19 only because of stress.
Becoming more toxic and irritating day by day. I limited myself to one room away from people so i don't have to deal with anyone.
It made me physically weak (Now working out like monsters) tho mentally I'm strong,don't have a kind of anyone with whom i could exchange some words for stress relief (huh, now I'm being mentally weak or emotional) Well enough, whenever i do feel like stress i take it in a Good way with the help of writing blogs, talking to virtual friends on hive kind of a medicine for relief.
Reached to a state of life where i accepted the fact that this stress is permanent thing
But have to learn to suffer with it because their is no other way to end this.
I hope everyone had a good time reading this and would love to hear thoughts or feedback from you in comment section.
Wishing all hivers and reading this a wonderful week ahead.
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All these things you mentioned can affect people mentally and these things can easily escalate and lead to depression if care is not taken.
One of the things we can do is to be culturally conscious especially when we are discussing with people that are from a different part of the world. We need to understand what is acceptable in that part of the world so we won't end up hurting them when we actually think we are having fun.
Also, a good sleep solves so many problems. Haha. Never take it for granted bro.
Yep, people don't care after making anyone fall in depression
That's the whole thing I've been asked from foreigner how bad this culture of asking is without thinking what other person think. they ain't leave own citizens so can't anything from them from other part of the world.
Bro, literally my sleep is lost somewhere - can't sleep more than 4 hours.
Thank you bro, really appreciate 😍
Wish you have a great week ahead.
I don't know why but I'm always laughing whenever you talk about your sleeping pattern 😂. Bro, you need to submit your phone to me whenever you feel sleepy. I will make sure you never get it back until after 10 straight hours of sleep 😂
😂🤣😂🤣😂 i can't live without phone even if I'm sleeping
Buy me some sleeping pills straight to heaven 😂
Hahah... No way! I don't want people to cry. Haha.
Just continue fighting with your 4 hours sleep 😂
Cry haha - hehe i will keep fighting
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I like the last meme hehe.
Btw, is there any link when you generate a graphic? You can add it.. Because if you submit this to dreemport, they always ask for links to photos..
Hehe,Glad you liked jt
Oh yea, i thought it's fine like this. will add it!!! Thanks for reminder.
Much love and have fun ahead!
Welcome 😉
This is a sad reality. I hope how it feels to be anxious and feared because of the society.
Yea, sometimes society is full of toxicity - that's why prefer to stay Alone in peace.
Why will someone make such compliment like this
So sad
But then, you shouldn't let it get to you. When you let it, you start seeing yourself as less
Everyone is beautiful is his or her way
They think it's fun - yea i never let it come closer
Indeed! Very well said.
Thanks for stopping by and dropping such a lovely comment. Much love!
You're welcome
Have a lovely day 😘
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Thanks @bhattg bro😍
Awee I love the last meme, absolutely🤗❤️
Another banger💥💥💥 Keep going, loved it.
The second meme is hilarious, so typical of overthinkers🤣
Hehe queen!! Meme's for youuu. Glad you liked it. Thank you so much for appreciation always encouraging me to make better one's.
Haha we all are overthinkers someway.
Ah, this has happened to me several times and sometimes I just want to punch that person in the face but chose not to and to just turn my back and go away. LOL.
But kidding aside, most times to cope, I share my worries to people I am close to and that feels so much better.
wish you well, hey! 😊
Haha i do want to punch them too! Will love to try it someday haha
You are lucky to have people whom to share your worries with - in my case i don't have any quite unlucky haha.
Wish you a great day and week!
Have fun.
Thank you for stopping by and dropping such a lovely comment. Much love
The thought and the expression is so good ! Awareness is must
Liked your post a lot ✨
Thank you so much bro! Really appreciate, much love!
Those words coming from your imaginations and expressions are really powerful. Stress is a permanent thing guessed we are programmed to face them .
Thanks bro, really appreciate! It is permanent thing of course!
Ahhh...
Good stress is helpful!
Yep truuu!
Great. I had a nice time easing this. Like you I believe stress is common. Everyday life activities call for it. I learn something today that it is cultural in Asia like you said. I pray and hope that you have the strength and courage to fight it though. All the best mate. And good luck in the competition
Yes, it's a very common thing in Asia. Infact many people get different kind of satisfaction doing this. I try to ignore them.
It's don't give me any kind of stress. i think it a opportunity to meet with new new people.
indeed - next level satisfaction for them
Haha nice, don't want to meet anyone.
When we were kids we don't know the word stress or that it can happen to us. It was not until a friend told us about how stressed her kid was and that surprised my friend because she didn't realize that at that age, her kid will be stressed. At that age, we don't know what stress is.
Said very well, being kids back then we wanted to grow older as fast as possible but now after seeing reality things are changed and yea kids of our age are also stress that's something bad in this era.
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Well, as it turns out, stress can easily be relieved. We just have to figure out what works best for us and stick to it.
Thank you for sharing this with us.
Exactly, just need to figure out. I truly agree with you mate!
Thank you for stopping by and dropping this lovely comment.
Have a Good day and Weekend ahead!
the stress anxiety and depression i can relate to , not the culture part, i have honestly no idea how things are in that part of the world , but my guess is that religion and family still is a big deal overthere.
I can't give you any tips or advice since my problems ain't your problems but i hope
you find a way to find peace , and be able to move on the way you like to live your life.
Just a thing of different culture in this part of world. Well yeah, Religion and Family is a big deal here!
Your words means a lot to me bud, Thanks a lot - gonna learn it with the time to move on and be in peace.
Much love and have fun on weekend!!