RE: Hive-Naija weekend Engagement #20 - "Personality Traits"

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This is me after 2 hours of socializing. I am an introvert to the core. The thought of leaving my house is so stressful. You know when someone cancels a plan you've been wanting to cancel so now you have to act disappointed when you are happy to stay home - that's me.

I wouldn't say introverts are smarter though, yes, they observe more than they speak. I don't think your personality type has anything to do with how smart you are, it may help enhance it, that's why introverts seem smarter but inherently it is all about the individual regardless of their personality type.

For the longest time, I used to tell my friends I wished I went out more in school or socialized more. All that changed when a few weeks ago I went to the club for the first time. I hated the whole experience and the whole time I wished I had gone up. So no I don't want to be extroverted, the outside life drains me abeg.



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True, being an introvert does not relate to being smarter at all. And being an extrovert does not mean otherwise.. I cannot imagine you. with what you wrote here, being in a club..I am sure it'd seem like hell cos you may just be looking around.🤣
And that image sure seems you are exhausted from interacting with people..so hilarious..😂

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😂😂 After an hour of trying to convince me to like and enjoy the experience I gave up and went to sleep in the car. No be me them go use noise kill.

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🤣😂
Although, I never go clubbing before but I do not think I like those loud sounds or beats....even when our church sound dey loud, I do tell my guys who are part of the technical team to go reduce am..or I steer cleat of the speaker!

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Lol, it's not a pretty experience. Loud music and smoke... Never again

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It can be very loud and irritating.... I can't do well with loud and irritating but I can manage an outdoor party with calm sound and good ambience and great music

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Rxactly, you got the point.

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...oh .and smoke..I abhor that a lot. Me wey anytine I smell something I do not like, boom catarrh loading..let alone now sitting and gisting in smoke.

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Club sweet scatter and i also love my space

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That is quite an oxymoron. enough. 🤣

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People assume everyone goes for the people, I enjoy clubs for the loud music.

Reminds me of music banging in my headphones but this time I have visuals to compliment it.

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It doesn't mean anything oo
Even some introvert knows nothing
Although it is good to listen than talk

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Yes, but I do not think I'd like someone who does not know something and still keep quiet...
Of course, its generally better to do more listening than talking...

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Some people don't talk when they don't know something because they fe they will be mocked

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Yes, and it is a bad o. And it can make things go out of hand at times when to talk is necessary to salvage a situation..

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😆 you went to a club for the first time just a few weeks ago??? Mad o

I don't think personality has anything to do with mental capabilities too. People function differently in different situations.

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😂Clubbing has never been my thing. I wouldn't have gone if not for an event I attended that lasted into the night and I had to stay with the people I came with.

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My point exactly. I am not so fond of human interaction but you see that loud music for club, e be like say them use am swear for me.

I like am scatter!!!!

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Lol i know that feeling right
In school my roommate would tell me let's go out but for me to wear cloth and go out is far
The spirit is willing but the body is weak... hahahahahaha

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Hahaha, exactly, the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak. Sometimes I even look forward to the outing, then at the last minute, I just lose interest.

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Mama support am with Bible verse, oshey pastor mrs..🤣

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😂😂 wetin person go do

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..more or less like "What shall the son of man do?"

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Man of God, I'm feeling the spirit😂

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Oh, you're feeling it ...your name is @blezyn, you're gonna be a blessing to your generAtion. Amen?

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This cat is me.

The thought of leaving my house is so stressful. You know when someone cancels a plan you've been wanting to cancel so now you have to act disappointed when you are happy to stay home - that's me

This is me too. Infact, I have a date with a friend today and I'm lowkey hoping she cancels but I know she won't. My body is tired already and I've not even left the house even when I know I will have a good time.

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😂😂 I can relate because most times it's not like it won't be fun, your body is just not interested.

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I have some people like that o, they will agree to a date but deep down them no wan attend or they will pray to cancel at the eleventh hour..

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Lol that part about outside life draining you are right there.
Being am introvert does not mean people who fall in that category are not fun to be with.
They are just comfortable with small space and relate more

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Exactly, it's draining when there are too many people in my space.

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