The US Is Lost πŸ¦…

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This first meme is pretty hilarious. I have experienced this a lot where way more dudes will give me props vs the verbal responses I get from women. I have done a lot of tests based on this in person and on Instagram.

With the guys they need to expand their network to other guys they perceive to have success with women and they want to learn your secrets and become part of your inner circle and network.

With women you have to go more by what they do and not what they say.

If they start asking all these qualifying questions they are interested in your look. The often aren't going to tell you if they think you are hot. If they are talking to you they are interested. If they aren't talking to you then you are invisible to them.

Pretty funny meme. The majority of women are extremely delusional about the tier of men they think should commit to them. They essentially don't exist.

This screenshot was pretty crazy. This chick I was connected to on Instagram is trying to up her stock by showing this guy willing to pay her to go on a date with her which is preposterous but it is happening more and more and warps these women's perception of what they can get.

You have an army of eSimps ready to pay cash money to borderline women who have a look based on makeup, lighting, and filters. These eSimps haven't even seen these women in real life. Crazy.

This one is a common trend. In places like the United States single moms will basically use the Praying Mantis technique. They have kids with guys and then utilize the court system to extract resources out of multiple men and then stunt on other guys online saying they have to do better to deserve her. πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„ Then other single moms cheer them on.

"Strong Women" supported by multiple men via proxy by court orders to pay child support and alimony.

Usually when women post relationship quotes all the time they are a headcase.

Where this quote actually goes off the rails is this might not be bad advice for a girl that is a junior in high school but it will be women in their 30s expecting to get free meals from a different guy every day and then complain there are no real men anymore...... etc.

Going Coast To Coast in 2022 Taught Me A Lot

I got to see the various situations in these various cities and at the end of the day it reconfirmed certain things and really just made it that much more clear that the US is lost in so many ways.

Out of all the guys I have played baseball with, why is it the only guys that were actually with a girl who was there looks match and where it made sense were from places like Venezuela?

The stats are devistating to be honest. Guys like Mike Rowe are scratching their heads saying guys don't want to work. They don't realize that 95% of these college guys 18-30 aren't getting anything or when they do it is a grossly over weight women with 3 baby daddies, 2 of which are in prison. Some sort of date down situation where they are crossfaded and then feel disgusted after the fact. Then they will talk up the situation like they are a pimp / player.

The reality is most guys aren't even able to get any attention from any women, a lot of guys getting friend zoned, also a lot of guys just getting used for free meals. They don't end up having sex with anything close to their looks match.

Going beyond your looks match almost always takes status and money or the perception of that.

What Can We Do?

I would say in the United States I could maybe have sustained traction and sort of "become something" in a place like Tulsa, Oklahoma. There are things I don't like about Tulsa. In Canada maybe a guy could become something in Calgary or Edmonton.

At the end of the day most guys will give up, some will remain perpetual savages running through women they really could never commit to. Some will take the risk of going Internation to increase their leverage.

I have determined that for myself Montenegro is a target for me for multiple reasons.

Sounds kind of crazy in a lot of respects but I hate to say it but the US has been lost in that regard. If there was an Alien Invasion πŸ‘½ would I defend the United States? Yeah, for sure. Put me in a fighter jet. I will give it my best shot. πŸ›ΈπŸ›©

When I weigh out the positives and negatives it seems to make sense because it looks like my money will at least go twice as far so if my game doesn't work there I will figure that out in a couple months.

I also think I'm going to apply for all these incentives in various areas. I keep checking the website with this Italy thing. Seems like it would be like getting a free house there but they haven't actually officially launched the program.

I don't know if Italy would be as good for me. It almost has to be a place that will elevate my status online and also a place where my money goes a lot further and having the US Passport is somewhat viewed as a step up.

None of this is going to happen immediately anyways.

Sounds crazy but every situation I have seen except a couple of them ended up in some crazy divorce / custody battle, guys marrying single moms with all kinds of drama, guys staying with mentally unstable morbidly obese women, guys becoming super betatized where they just get financial and verbally abused and then discarded.

Then I see the traction that good looking, athletic, in shape guys have with their looks equivalent. It's fleeting success almost always.

It's like every situation is a nightmare like the Johnny Depp situation, or the Tom Brady situation, or Brad Pitt's situation.

Seems like less than 10% of people are in a healthy situation at this point in the United States.

What country would you guys move to?



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Be her dream guy.... the only way to a successful marriage.
But, i am not top 10%. Top 20% doesn't cut it. Maybe no longer top 10%, you need top 5%.

Still, there are many in that bracket who are paying the price of bad wimminz they wifed up.

Wimminz who watch Hollyweird propaganda now believe in super-man/prince charming who will ride into their lives, be able to heave their 150kg body onto a horse and ride off with her.

And this is the start of their fantasy. They expect to be more bedazzled each day.
All of these wimminz have almost no personality. No idea how to work with men. No idea of what a relationship is. But they all expect the fantasy.

Rian Stone uses the term Perfect Mental State. Where the dream land is much stronger than reality.
Where not even the wall will effect that dream.

I have a 70 y.o. friend(?) who wants a bf. And she has several men who would get with her, but she doesn't like any of them. She wants a guy who has a boat. And not a small boat, she is so over that, she wants a guy who has a boat that has a full time chef.
Sooo, a top 0.1% guy? Super cars are no longer a good enough level. And she thinks that her argumentative personality can attract that.

There are only a few people i know who have found a good mate and have a happy married life.
Find a good girl and marry her before she goes to college. It doesn't always work, but best odds. Like betting on craps.

Society collapsing might make a few of these wimminz go running into the arms of a good men..
but i am also forseeing corporations offering THEIR people housing inside walled cities
and more and more, their people means wimminz.

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Tough to be her dream guy for more than about 5 minutes in 2023. Their attention span is so extremely short it is insane. Women are able to get more attention than any other women in human history with social media so you aren't just competing against the guys in your immediate area, you are competing against guys all over the world. Sounds absurd but their attention is always being pulled away by guys on Instagram they have never even met. I have women like that. Women I connected with on a dating app and they live in Maryland and I haven't been there since April of last year. They are into the idea of me. How many guys has she compared to me and we haven't ever met in real life? How many women have thrown me to the side when I'm right in front of them because they compare me with a guy living in Austin Texas they have never met? It is really hard to say.

I have seen women throw away their marriages for guys they don't even know.

The thing you say about the boats is very true. That is one of the things I learned in Miami. My friend is in a boat club and we went out on a 24 footer and he even said that it sounds cool to be in the boat club and all that but basic women expect to be on $100 million dollar yachts that could make it across the Atlantic.

Some of the data on the dating apps actually suggest that it is only 2% of men suddenly having success. And when I say success I'm saying having sex with the women. Most men don't get to the date stage. Then there are guys that get to the date stage and these women are just looking for free meals and use these guys and it never goes to a physical / sexual stage. Can we even say that it is success to have sex with a woman if she isn't hot? Can we even say it is success if you are trying to have a family and you get to have sex with the woman once or twice and there is no future in it? It's all relative. Can we consider Tom Brady's marriage successful now that they are divorced and she is banging her martial arts trainer?

I do believe that people who got together when they were in high school had the best chance for the longest runway because of the pair bonding situation. That is more and more rare but I do see it a little bit still in the United States. The age gap situations become more and more rare for various reasons so the premise that a 20 year old women is even going to be with a 30 year old guy in the United States long term is more and more rare. Average age gap in marriage is 2.2 years and that is typical for most 1st World countries. Under developed nations it goes up to about 10 years or so. So taking that information and stuff that women have said in interviews from Eastern Europe on YouTube even they act like 15 year gaps are pushing it and 20 years is too much. So this stuff becomes less and less common. You basically have to be the top of the top of the top in status, looks.....etc. Looks like George Clooney is 61 and his wife is 44. Leonardo DiCaprio mainly just dates women 25 and under. Michael Jordan is 59 and his wife is 43. It seems like in normal society this is more rare. I know that a lot of the women have this very strange perception of certain ages or they think a guy in their 30's are going to be in the nursing home in a couple months but thing it really fucks with their head when that guy they think is old is stronger, more athletic, and destroying guys who are 23 but usually is just X's out the older guy and they guys who are her age as well. No one is good enough.

The women are always going to want more so it would damn near have to be a situation where they lived a very basic existence and then a guy took them under their wing and kept upgrading their lifestyle as time goes on.

This premise of going to Eastern Europe can blow up bad in a guys face as well and I'm very aware of that. The premise of going to Montenegro and being a "boss" might get cut off real quick if Serbian mafia type characters don't like the competition. You just never really know. I see this type of thing happen even in smaller towns in the Midwest......you come in as the Apex Predator and trashy type dudes want to start fights. It gets very primitive.

I think as society collapses some women will try to clean up their act and find a guy to rely on but the decline takes place more guys will really batten down the hatches. They will just live in a rusted out Astro Van from the 90's and live off fried Earth worms and boiled pigeon eggs. More women will get divorces to try to extract resources out of their former husbands retirement accounts and then go on food stamps as well and then try to find another couple guys to provide resources as well. Free meals, some cheap wine....etc.

Some might say I'm complaining or crying because I don't have game or something which simply isn't the case. It would be like saying Tom Brady doesn't have game or something.

I'm simply detailing the situation and that it is rapidly changing and can be very emotionally and financially devastating to make the wrong step. I have literally seen guys be a shell of their former self telling me that I'm so lucky that I haven't gotten married and went through some divorce. That's simply just what happened. Out of all the women I have had solid traction with the last couple of years I really can't say there is a true future with any of them. That being said I'm willing to take my chances in the International scene after elevating my status a little bit more. Like I have said it is damn near impossible. Most will just completely give up.

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Get a 100 million dollar yacht and get married on the high seas.
Tell her divorce is easy. Just walk off the end of the boarding ramp. (even while at sea)

(not really sure this would work)

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It sucks to have to come up with an elaborate game plan and as we become more and more aware suddenly it becomes a necessity. One of the things I have had success with is remaining a mystery man. These women try to figure me out and they get fed another piece of the puzzle when the time is right. Suddenly a week after they first met me they suddenly see what I'm driving. Two weeks later I suddenly inform them I'm flying to Long Island to play baseball.....etc. I speed up and slow down my game as appropriate but always remaining a mystery to be solved. 30 facets and they can never see every side. As soon as they think they have figured it out then you are finished even if they are incorrect in their assessment. That is usually when they find out through social media that I'm way more boss than they thought and they end up following me until the end of time and torture themselves by watching like that. It ends up becoming this alpha ghost scenario that a lot of these women suffer from. The more alpha ghosts they rack up the more ruined they become. To be honest it is very damaging for everyone. Us guys included. Continually requalifying yourself to present status or ability to a new set of women all the time is exhausting. A huge waste of time to be honest and I have often played with the premise of if it is cheaper and healthier to be a single lone wolf or a guy who is married. It sort of seems to be a give take and it really depends on the women these guys are with and how much leverage they have.

The marriage and relationship will almost always slow a man down and cost him a lot of time and resources. They often pay on the backend especially if they get taken through the divorce courts.

Most of the guys who I know that are in the best shape are single. Also they have more piece of mind from a certain aspect because a lot of women will constantly test you and requalify and requalify and requalify. Giselle was still qualifying Tom Brady until he was suddenly disqualified according to her own reality.

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