Saying something: Part fifteen

I evaluate successful and unsuccessful people based on their professional work, their communication with others, and the results of their life goals. I act by looking at all developments objectively, no matter what. I take responsibility for my failures. After graduating from high school, I participated in theater auditions at the Culture and Arts Center. I was rejected every time. But I never gave up. I persevered. I tried harder. I tried to gain knowledge by talking to experienced people who did this job. I tried to find my weaknesses. I was given a text for the auditions. Some theater actors call this text. My failure was that I had only memorized the text. Actually, who wrote the text? Why did they write this text? What was the political and social situation when the author wrote the text? How did the author see the character in relation to that period, and how did they want to convey that? I should have researched all of this beforehand and worked on my role accordingly. I realized this later. In the final auditions, I researched all the details about the text and prepared for my role that way, and I was selected.

I would add that successful always search for improvements while unsuccessful sits on what he has

I bloody hate gossip and talk behind, at work places it's very common

Success can be defined by different people from different angles. There is no point in following others to achieve success. But we can also adopt the methods and paths that other successful people have taken to achieve it in our own lives. Since opportunities do not come to us, we can learn from advanced people so that we can create them. When we follow them and move forward, obstacles and difficulties will inevitably come. We must face them and create systematic answers within ourselves. We can understand that the experiences we gain during these difficult times are essential in moving forward. There are things that can be learned from them after facing failures. What can be the meaning of success if we cannot learn lessons from failures? It is more important to manage the time we always get for productive activities without wasting it. By increasing relationships in a society and always acting in a friendly manner, we can create a society of successful people around us. Through this, we can achieve more productive opportunities.

I notice a lot of my friends (and even myself sometimes) want quick results without putting in the effort. It makes me think that building small habits now, like managing my time better and being open to learning from mistakes, might shape the kind of person I’ll become in the future.

That bit about using a list and hitting the big things first makes sense. My lists only started working when I tied tasks to time blocks and cut half the items, otherwise they turned into a guilt parade. Do you set tomorrow’s top three the night before or do it in the morning?

When I was younger, much younger, I found it very difficult to adapt to change and I didn't like things changing, but over time I saw the opportunity in them, which I took advantage of. Also, over time, I realised that it was better to keep that list. Sometimes I keep it in my head, but when there are a lot of things, I write them down in a notebook.

The third point is the only one that has been the same from the beginning: discipline, effort, hard work... since I was a little girl, and sometimes with an excess of responsibility that has led to stress. Today, I control it better by finding time to rest.

I use to believe that hard work is all i need to be successful, but then, i think i'm beginning to understand that achieving success is not just about how hard a person works. I may be wrong, but i think hard work without smart work, determination, discipline and a good social skill is futile.

Welcome change as opportunity and are happy to learn from others and their own failures

I would like to add that successful people are able to learn, unlearn and re-learn while being happy at it.

I once have a friend that puts in little to no effort in anything they do. If things don't go the way they planned, the complain and cry a river.

I will also like to add that bring successful means standing through hard times. Instead of wallowing in self pity, a successful person would ask themselves - Why is this happening to me? How did i get here? How do i get out of this and What lesson did i learnt from it?

I'm still underdeveloped. Lol.... And I have gotten quite a lot of insight from this post.

I feel like I embody both some of the positive and negative pieces of that at various times. There are some folks that just get under my skin!

I truly appreciate your blogs it always make sense.

Well for me the elements makes a person successful is that they take failures as an opportunity to grow and learn while unsuccessful is that a person is always stacked from where he/she is it's like a person who cant move.

Successful: seeks out and listens to advice from wise people (mentors, books, etc).
Unsuccessful: makes a lot of excuses and blames other people or circumstances for anything and everything that goes wrong (victim mentality).

Another good addition, successful people don't shy away from correction. Matter of fact, they are open to it, it assures them that if they apply that tiny change to their life, they would only get better and in the long run, more successful.

Had one more (though you might have mentioned that in one of the other posts, I don't quite recall them all).

Successful: Find methods that work well with their specific character to do a great job.
Unsuccessful: Don't change a thing about their methods even though their not working, or copy the methods of others without reflecting if their suited for themselves.

One I'm not sure about if it's successful, but happy:

Successful: Takes an holistic approach towards work, balancing out several factors that determine their well-being.
Unsuccessful: Focuses on one part, like money or easiness of the job, disregarding the rest.

And another one, that is successful in my eyes, but probably not in our current ecosystem.

Successful: Considers their community and the effects that their actions have on it.
Unsuccessful: Goes for the outcome that benefits themselves above all else, without regard for the effects caused by their actions.

It seems like a good portion of society now falls into the 'unsuccessful' group, sometimes displaying all three of your unsuccessful points in the same breath.

"That damned Susie thinks she's sooo smart, I hope she falls flat on her face in front of the boss and if she does, I'm gonna laugh right in her stupid face...if that happens, he'll give the job to me since I'm next in line, don't matter that I've never done it before, I'm a whiz at stuff like that."

I've worked with so many people like that. I'd like to say that it's mostly the younger folk, but nope...all ages, all spoiled, all toxic.

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Change is scary at first. In recent years, leaving my comfort zone terrified me. Fear of the unknown was the main reason I resisted change. In the end, it wasn't as bad as I thought, and it proved to be very beneficial in my personal and professional life.

Best regards!

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