Giving Love a chance again

Greetings everyone ๐Ÿ™Œ

Today, while seated in my workplace, facing the main road to observe the happenings, a dark-skinned lady walked past and immediately, it reminded me of a lady I once asked out during my school days.
I don't know how it happened, but on that spot, it dawned on me that I haven't really been trying with my single life, and I need to come out of that zone and give love a chance again. "Yes, go and love again!"

Am I really ready to love again?

This question hit my heart so loudly, and what my heart did was to reflect back on my past love trials. I saw that most of them ended in premium heartbreaks, which actually made me turn my heart into a rock to avoid being devoured by these ladies again.

Over the years, the decision to turn my heart to a rock has been so protective for me, and it seems it wants to get melted because whatever is prompting this love to my heart again is definitely not from this planet...my heart wants to get pierced again๐Ÿ’”

I don't know how the tough guys do it with how they love with just 0.001% of their heart. My own case is totally different. When I fall in love, I fall with my spirit, body, and soul. The only thing I try to control with all the strength left in me is my wallet. Feel free to call me stingy; I don't care....after all, it's never recorded in the book of the law to empty one's account on the subject of love. I can only give in to being a Father Christmas to a lady when I've been charmed with 'kayamata' (love potion) but it's not possible because my body with the plenty of anointing oil I swallow, is immune to it.

So, should I be ready for heartbreak, right?

In my country, we have a slang that says "heartbreak is for everyone," and in fact, I'm among the people that laugh at victims of that on a daily basis because I'm actually surrounded by friends going through the stage.

I've had my fair share of torture from the hand of heartbreak, and I feel I've collected my portion already because it's meant for everyone. How can I be certain that I won't experience another round of heartbreak when I decide to give love another chance?

Please, if you're reading this and you've been avoiding heartbreak when in love, please tell me your hack and save a brother.

Let me ask it better, how do you guys love with 0.0001% of your heart?

Please teach me how to do that because my heart has been safe and secure all this while, and I don't want it to be shattered again.

Do I have someone in mind already?

Ever since my last attempt at love, I decided not to go out anymore because love and 'going out' work hand in hand in emptying the pocket.

Oh yeah, the last person I attempted to be with, opened an Access Bank account on my head immediately she said agreed for a date, and she was very good at billing. I later edited her name on my phone as 'Prisca B.' You should know the complete name... 'Prisca Billings'**. Nice name๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘
She was so good in billing to the extent that I had to tell that If her billings are meant to test whether I'm stingy or not, I boldly announced to her that I'm actually frugal with a little touch of stinginess

Like I was saying, I haven't been going out, which means I haven't been meeting people. The only place I mix with people is the Church, but I'm an usher there, and I wouldn't want a situation whereby a lady will break my heart at the end, and I'll be shy to go to church again.
No way!

The only people I've got now are people on Hive and...

Okay,
Let's continue next time.

Thank you for reading.

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Prisca Billing?๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ
Interesting
I wish you all the best and tell me where you will find the love so I also go there to find one myself ๐Ÿคฃ

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Lol๐Ÿคฃ

Did you not read the last part I talked about going for friends on hive.

Tuesday, you're number one on the list๐Ÿ˜…

Thank you reading

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I did not see that part
I got blind when I reached there๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

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Lol๐Ÿ˜…
Let me pay your transport to go back to read it.
Check your bank account, I just sent you 3k ceedis

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You donโ€™t understand?
I said I get blind when I get to that part๐Ÿ˜‚

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You are a clown ajeh๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ, Prisca billing ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ, well just let it flow if you withhold some emotions because you fear heartbreak then you're not still ready for love. I wish you the best .

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Lol๐Ÿคฃ
That's what I was told sha....keep giving love a second chance and one day, everything will click. But e no easy ooo!

Thank you

!BBH

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Oh yeah, the last person I attempted to be with, opened an Access Bank account on my head

What is this๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ you are something else. You really had to edit her name. This boy๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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You are really frugal with a big dose of stinginess.... I already knew from the start bro, do you remember ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

A real man is never afraid to open the heart and love again but I can't help but wonder if you go for ladies that are what is called "big fish". ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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Hahahahaha๐Ÿ˜…

Your last statement caught me hard๐Ÿคฃ.

You got it very right.
I have eyes for big fishes. I'm targeting Tyla very soon

Thank you for stopping by

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Make big fish no kill you o๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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This was a good read.

You need to try to overcome your fears if you want to give love another chance. Don't force it, just let it flow and one thing you need to know is "if the person is meant for you, it will work, when you understand this, you won't be heart-broken, you will only feel sad because of the time you invested in it. Begin with friendship and let love lead the way.

Lol. So you are one of those who give people names? ๐Ÿ˜…

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Hahahah๐Ÿคฃ
This auntie.
Thank you so much.
This love of a thing dn tire me jareeeh.
But I'll give it a shot again

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Auntie? Lol. You're most welcome.

Well done. When you do, come share your lovellovely story with us.

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Hahahaha ๐Ÿ˜…
I heard you dear

!luv

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This love thing sef... Honestly I'm tired๐Ÿ˜’
#dreemerforlife

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I thought you've found love already? Lol ๐Ÿ˜…

If you're yet to find then....
No, you've found already

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She was so good in billing to the extent that I had to tell that If her billings are meant to test whether I'm stingy or not, I boldly announced to her that I'm actually frugal with a little touch of stinginess

This is so funny, some persons actualy misinterprete the intent of a relationship, turning it into a money making venture.
#dreemerforlife

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That's it.
We've gone too far with this belief and it's very hard to retreat.
Na your gender dey cause this thing ๐Ÿ˜…

Thank you for stopping by

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I think too many people focus on love and having their heart broken!

Love happens, just as life happens.

By the way, how do you know you aren't the one breaking someone's heart?
Popped in from #dreemport tonight.

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By the way, how do you know you aren't the one breaking someone's heart?

My conscience is right. I haven't broken any lady's heart before ๐Ÿ˜Ž

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