Old Pattern Never Die | Let To Say No To Things

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There is a saying which says that what you do continuously will turn to an habit, I think I heard that from someone when trying to learn how to do some things consistently and also those habit can turn to addiction, one addiction we are currently facing is phone addiction and it really started from somewhere till it turn to a pattern we can't desist from. At times I do look at some people who are addicted to the wrong things especially drinking to stupor and all and how they always find it hard to desist from such habit and even if they finally quit, they will go back to it later on, they forgot trying to change such habit isn't the only important thing but to change their circle, the easier way to go back to your old habit is by been in the same circle with people that can easily tempt you to go back to it.

I once watch a movie that really touch me somehow and also passed me some messages across to me which I will love to share, this man was a drunkard and he love drinking to stupor every blessed day till he got addicted, this lifestyle didn't affect him only but also his family as a whole because when ever he is broke, he do still the family savings to drink and also gamble with it till he finished everything, his mother fell sick and die because there is no money for treatment, his wife also left him because of the acts, after a while, he decided to repent and stop the habit so he can take care of the kids, so he went for therapies and after a while, he got his life fixed.

Things change for good since he is working and saving up until one faithful day, they did a job successfully at work and his boss decided to celebrate everyone with food and drinks, even thou he hesitate to drink, his word weren't strong enough and he yield to his boss word and that was the end of everything, he went from 100 back to 0 and started his drinking habit once again. In life, we are the one that only know what we have pass through and how hard we really work to get back on track after missing out ways, we should have this strong conviction that we will never go back to our old ways and be strong enough to say no to things.

There are lot of things that are really putting pressure on us from every angle in life, we can always learn to stand out and not be pressurise even though people will criticize us for taking such decision but we need to know that any decision we make, there are people that will or can suffer from such decision. We should know there is power in saying no to things or anyone especially when it is going against your plan, only you know why you choose such choice, learn to stick by it