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I agree, though I tend to do the housework by default, if my spouse decides to randomly do my chores for me, it is the Action that spoke louder than Words. Not just one time, but often enough over a long term.
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Continue this attitude throughout your marriage and you will have quite a happy wife!!!

I commend you!!! Many husbands come into the marriage thinking they now have a slave for a wife...

but we are to be of service to one another... I love that you demonstrated this so beautifully even just 7 days into your marriage!!! ☺️☺️☺️

Your wife found a wonderful husband! Keep up the loving attitude!!!

Without couples supporting each other whether on household chores, finance or whatever way, that marriage may not really work out well. You don't shift all the burdens on your partner claiming it's their duty, no, it is everyone's duty.
Both parties should be involved in that marriage - team work
#dreemerforlife

Like tell me about it. Infact please help me increase the volume so that those at the back can hear you.

I so much believe in acts of service as it helps strengthen bonds between couples and one will get not feel so worked out.

Gone are the days of "mummy is in the kitchen cooking rice and daddy is in the parlor watching film". Men should endeavor to help out their wives.

Thank you so much for this post, you are doing well. Please continue helping your woman.

#dreemerforlife

You are a gem, and it'll be nice if your wife understands that and holds deeply onto you as you both gros your marriage. I have to confess that it is very hard to find men who assist their wife's in household chores, which is very sad.

I believe marriage is all about helping one another and filling up that space. Taking your wife out and not letting house chores make her look old. Cook together in the kitchen while tasting whatever comes your way. It strengthens the love life even when kids come around. Thanks for sharing this piece.

Hello dearest fashionable dreemer. Today is Wednesday, which means we just have a few days to the weekend. But, before that, I hope you are well and ready to face the world because you can. You are an amazing person, don't forget that. I waltzed in from #dreemport, for I am an amazing #dreemer. An awesomely made #dreemerforlife.

Congratulations on your wedding Ashiru 🎉🎉

If you know how happy I am reading your blog today, one will think I won a lottery 😄
But honestly, I congratulate you for this mindset, some men in this age still think that a wife is a maid and so she has to be a total housewife with no career, but that is wrong. What more can I say? I totally agree with you and I pray God strengthen you and your wife in the institution of marriage, bless you abundantly and protect your family.

I wish many men will also think this way, to know that husband and wife need to work together which strengthens the marriage.

God bless you, thanks for sharing this with us. I will share it on X as well.

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Hey @ashiru,

I've never heard that term of "woman wrappers" before... but honestly, I feel sorry for the people that say things like that... they stuck in the past and likely have a lot of tension in their family. The truth is that responsibilities of the household chores are everyone's responsibility.

If both people in the relationship put the effort into making your lives as good as can be, then there will be more trust and more happiness in that relationship. That's the real secret to long-lasting successful relationships. Well done having a better outlook on your marriage than people who might have been married for longer!

#dreemerforlife

This is the best post I've read on the block chain today, you are an amazing partner, and your wife is a lucky one. I hope some egocentric men we have out there get to read this beautiful piece.

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I was planning on writing on this very topic later today. A wife is a precious gift and should be treated as such. My personal view is the job of a husband is to help your wife be the best at whoever she is. If she is destined to be a housewife help her be the best housewife. My wife is a nurse and I take care of a lot of the household chores so she can focus on being the best nurse she can be.

Since every woman is different, every husbands role should be different. Expecting every wife to stay in the house and wash dishes is silly...some women just aren't made for that. Expecting every husband to grind a a daily job is also silly...some men aren't made for that (just ask any true artist!).

I'll see if my time permits and may write on the topic myself.

Either way, thanks for your post.

Excellent , it is important to collaborate at home especially when the responsibilities with the children increase, a marriage is a team, teamwork eases the burdens and strengthens the relationship.
Personally the person who is in charge of the kitchen at home is me, because I like to cook for my family I have no problem with taking a broom, helping my wife.

thank you for sharing this brief reflection. #dreemerforlife

Some men are so stupid, that they always think that helping their wives has turned them into their slaves which is not like that, most of them end up being divorced and they will never find that perfect match for themselves, please do not pay attention to his talk and always help your wife at home.
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There's even a refined word for the woman wrapper. It's now called "simp." Even those who barely know the true meaning of the word use it. If you respect your wife and show her love, even as much as carry her bag, then you're a simp. It can be funny sometimes but I pity what people with that mentality would be like in their homes.

They easily forget that a wife is a partner. I am happy for you and your family. Disregard whatever you're told. It's your home, your happy place. Do whatever you can to make life as easy and comfortable for yourself and your wife.

This post made me really glad. Thank you!
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Most people are growing with that mentality that the women are supposed to do everything house chores. I am glad you were able to ignore him because you both are help mates to each other. Thanks for sharing.

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You are a good man, God bless you for this post and wisdom shared. How I wish that other men can read and take the advice. I feel terrible whenever I see a wife doing all the chores without help or assistance.

When you ask some of these men that act this way, why they don't assist their wives, you would hear them say "what will people say".

Anytime I hear this phrase or statement, I shake my head in pain because these men are clueless. Did you get married based on what people say?

This is your home, it takes two to tango. Two are better than one, that's God's word.

I better stop here before I start a full sermon.

God bless you real good and please don't listen to any body who wants to make you change your way. Stand firm and be happy with what you are doing. Your family is blessed.

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If for anything. All house hold chores are the man's duty... The woman is there to assist meaning she does them because the man needs help getting his job done

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Congrats @ashiru , may your home be blessed. How come we didn't get an invite? 😅Just teasing. You are doing well, assisting. Men who assist their wives earn their respect more than those who are domineering and never ready to help.
With love and mutual understanding, you can do things together and contribute to your family's lasting happiness

Helping your wife do her house chores is not foolishness or weakness as some people see it as. I love the fact that you are helping your wife do her chores, it's a sign of maturity and love. I wonder where people get the idea of all house chores concerning kitchen is for women. That's a very wrong mentality. Couples ought to support each other even in house chores.

Thanks for sharing this with us

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The whole "women do this, men do that" mindset in household chores is so last century. Marriage is a team effort, you know? Pitching in together with chores isn't just about getting things done; it's like a secret sauce for a stronger, less stressful relationship. #dreemerforlife

Assisting your wife in doing household chores is not bad and doesn't mean you're a weakling or a woman wrapper, well, depending on if it's a week day or weakend because what would a man be doing at home on a weekday?

I really appreciate the fact that you're man enough to help your wife with those chores though..

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True saying!
I think Nigerian men need to read your post,
Here most men don't even lift a pin just because they believe that is only made for woman,
After all the stress ,they still expect their wives to look beautiful and hot when they return from work .
You really doing well.

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I would advise you to reduce the level of your friendship and never relate the matter of your family with him.
A man telling you not to assist your wife must be a wife-beater.
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You just spoke my mind on this, it's sad that even some women think that it is inappropriate for a man to do chores in the home. People fail to realize that the creator of marriage said that the woman is to be a help mate not the one to be helped.

I really do hope many men get to learn from you, keep up the good work 😊.

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Marriage is a two way thing, as is any relationship. If you don't share responsibilities then it is doomed in my book by resentment and failure.

Marriage is really serious and requires the couple to trust and support each other. The husband and wife should help each other out.

You have rightly said something great and of experience. I visited a couple yesterday and was amazed and happy about what I met. The man was also helping out with household chores together with his wife. This is what marriage should be. A wife is your helpmeet and not your house maid but not all people will understand this part.
I popped in through #dreemport
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With a mindset like yours, which woman would complain? Marriage takes two intentional people to make it work. As long as you are committed and dedicated to doing your own part in your home without attaching gender to it, your home is going to be the best yet. You don't owe anyone any explanation by the way, and by that, I mean your friend that came visiting. You do you, and navigate your beautiful home ship to the best shore.

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Marriage is a contract for a long lifetime, supporting each other is very important, I don't like when the chores is placed on a woman just because she's a woman, so therefore the man sees no reason to help out at home. I have seen lot of men with such mentally. Beautiful enlightenment post#dreemport

I am not surprised at what your friend said because that's how we were culture badly.

If not for civilization, a lot of people would still see helping a wife to do house chores as slavery. It's very poor on how we thing of thing😢
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In fact, I believe that those are basic life skills that everyone should have. I wonder why, when, and how that perception started. Chores is never meant for the woman alone. If you live in a place, then it is your responsibility to clean it up. Period.

I completely agree with you, marriage is about sharing life together and helping each other. Through your post, I learned it's important to break down gender stereotypes and work together as a team to maintain a healthy and happy household. But did you know Supporting each other with household chores not only reduces stress levels but also strengthens the bond between partners? Of course, you will find out as you continue with this attitude in your marriage. Happy Married Life.
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This is wonderful advice, @ashiru - from the heart, intentional. Men and women fit together as a complete puzzle. Without each other we don't form a complete picture... and so we should do everything we can to provide each other with the right level of support in all endeavours. !PIZZA

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You're a real man, bro. The fact that you consider everything done in the house to be shared amongst yourselves makes is part of what makes you so, to me at least.

Marriage isn't slavery, so the wife shouldn't be subjected to doing all of the household work when the husband can join in to make it a blissful experience. That's what unity stands for.

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