If you don’t like your life, Change it !

Instead of blaming everything on the situation, other people, the universe, and even the neighbor’s cat. Start changing your life.

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Many will likely say, ‘Change is not easy’ or perhaps you’ve been trying to change, but you haven’t seen progress, so you’ve assumed that it’s difficult.

I know many people like that. They think they’re making changes, but in reality, they’re not. To truly change, you need to replace your life values. Those old beliefs you thought were effective? Replace them because clearly, they’re not working, right?

When your life values shift, your opinions on various matters change, your life decisions transform, and even your discipline evolves.

As Einstein supposedly said, ‘Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.’ (Although there’s no concrete evidence that he actually said this.)

Many people expect that if they keep doing what they’re doing in life, eventually, the big break will come. But it doesn’t work that way.

Perhaps the big break has already come to you multiple times, and you’ve simply let it slip away because your current values couldn’t accept it.

You’re broke, and a job opportunity arises, but you give it numerous reasons not to take it—things like ‘I don’t know about that,’ ‘The salary is too low,’ ‘I don’t want to work,’ and many other excuses.

Little do you realize that this opportunity might be the key to a much bigger breakthrough if you’d only accept it.

God sends a blessing and a solution to your problem, but when given to you, you reject it and think it's not what God gave. That's it! But you don't want it because it doesn't fit your standards.

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God is not a Fairy Godmother, and please... don’t ask for something you don’t deserve.

When you asked for a decent relationship, God sent you a partner, but you declined because they weren’t handsome or beautiful, or they weren’t wealthy, etc.

When you asked for food every day, God gave you a job, but you had so many excuses that you didn’t accept the work.

Believe me, time on this earth is running out, and you’re waiting for your life to change miraculously. Maybe there’s something you need to change in your life, but you just don’t want to accept it.